silky panties

I like to wear my wife's silky panties sometimes when we have sex. A few years back she bought a couple of sexy short nighties for me to wear on a 2 weekvacation we took. the sex was great, at least twice a day on that trip. The problem started when she told her best friend about it. Her friend told her I was gay!! Just for the record I am not gay or bi. My wife was very upset and now refuses to allow the panties when we have sex and has Questioned me for long periods about my sexuality. [deleted] Second question is, why does a woman have to tell her friends about every thing. The telling her friends part of the situation has caused a major problem in our relationship. I can't tell my wife anything that may embaris me if our friends or family found out.